At this point I'm just kickin back playing Crimson Desert and enjoying reading along lol; I dig hearing about ya'lls gaming memories.
I was not so fortunate as to grow up in a tech household, quite the contrary actually. We lived on a farm and my father was a farrier and my mother a horse trainer; so technology wasn't really their forte. I've always been an oddball of the family.
Though Dad did buy an NES to play with me back in the day; but when the SNES was released he was unable to play anymore due to the motion sickness it caused him. I played SNES until they bought me a Playstation 2 for my birthday the year it came out. It was one of the most memorable things they'd done for me as it was the first time I recall they invested in my interest with technology; though to this date my dad still deems it the worst thing he ever did because all he saw was a kid playing video games all the time; not the kid learning about the tech that made the games do what I loved so much. (He's starting to come around now that he sees me building enterprise grade infrastructure out of my basement for funzies).
I fondly remember my last days really playing games with dad. We played a lot of Super Mario Bros on the NES and CONTRA was the first video game I'd ever actually beat with him; I was something like 4 years old.
I get what you mean about parents not always understanding the tech side of gaming.
For them it can just look like “the kid is playing games all day,” but for some of us that was also how we started understanding computers, hardware, menus, settings, systems, and why things worked the way they did. It was not just the game itself. It was everything around it.
I bought my PS2 with my Blå Mandag money, not sure what the best English word is for that, maybe confirmation money / Blue Monday money. I got it about a year after it came out, from a supermarket of all places. I probably paid too much for it too, because that shop was not cheap with games. I remember they still had the original Resident Evil 1 for PS1 years later for around 500 DKK, which was crazy for an old PS1 game.
And the horse/farm side I can actually relate to a bit too, just from a different direction. I grew up for years in a treatment home for kids, and we had animals there. Some of us had to go down in the morning before school and feed them. We had horses too, and I helped take care of them. Feeding, cleaning stalls, being around them, that kind of thing. Not like I was some horse expert, but enough to know it is hard work if you do not keep up with it every day.
We also had a farrier come out and work on the horses’ hooves/shoes. That is the only place I really remember seeing that done in real life. You do not run into farriers much in Denmark unless you are around horses. Maybe in places with a bigger horse culture it is more normal, but for me it is tied directly to that place.
Later I trained as a zookeeper and worked with animals for a while, so animals have always been part of my life too. Just not from a normal farm family angle.
Funny how gaming and animals can both become these lifelong things, even if the road into them is completely different.