Since this thread's already off-topic, lemme add my 2cents on distro choice and distro-hopping...
Thhe look and feel are fairly irrelevant because most of the time these are just tweaks which you can do in any distro. So what really defines a distro then? IMHO:
- Init system. Not just the default, but whether there's a choice.
- Package management. Yes, times are changing with AppImage, Flatpak, Snappy, etc., but the package management system (if present) defines how core things work. You cannot rely solely on upstream packages because you end up with an unstable mess. I found this with Endeavour OS as opposed to Arch (a pity, because it made a perfect compromise between Manjaro and Arch, though TBH if you use an Arch-deriv, just rather use Arch since the time you save installing becomes a diminishing return when faced with bugs/conflicts that aren't in Arch itself, largely because these distros randomly mix AUR into their distro base and that often breaks updates in the long run).
- Ethics, goals, philosophy..... Value system, basically. Probably the biggest thing here.
So, ask yourself what you are looking to get out of Linux? Security? Stability? Performance? Fun? Freedom? Customisation? Sticking it to M$/crApple? Nice OOTB experience? Ethics? Openness? Purism re GNU philosophy? Full control of your system?
Draw an intersectionality map (lol, hate the word "intersectionality" like I hate "trending" and other neo-isms). Now you can visit some distro sites, learn about them, and make your choice. Obviously, at this stage, the OOTB setup will be a strong deciding factor, but at least you'll have a base that you also like and the knowledge that one day you'll be able to fully customise your DE and focussed solely on the points I discussed above.
Also, I would try to stick to "pure" distros. For example: Manjaro is not Arch the same way Ubuntu is not Debian. Not only will you get better support and a more stable system, but moving down is easier than up (unless you're me), so Debian --> Ubuntu is probably easier than Ubuntu --> Debian (again, except for me; I cringe whenever someone running Ubuntu says "help"). Also, do not forget the diminishing return principle; it pertains to learning, too. Bear in mind that you'll have to learn to do stuff manually any way, so choosing a distro with pretty GUI apps to wipe your bottom will only hinder learning to do things without it in the future. A word to the wise: GUIs change dramatically where their CLI counterparts hardly ever do.
...And when testing the distros you like, try and use them as barebones as possible to get an idea of what's inside.