I have absolute no comment to add to the wise things said by much wiser people than me, in this topic. I would only like to share my experience with you:
I don't like Linux as such. I also don't like Windows as such. I have used, quite extensively NewDos/80, Atari TOS, MS/DOS (most versions), Novell NetWare, MS Windows (most versions), OS/400, Xenix, Linux (lUbuntu, Debian/Pi OS, Kali), MacOS. And I view them all the same: each of these systems have their strong points and their weak points, but all are great in their own way for their own purpose. All are quite horrible at doing what they are not great for.
If you want nothing to do with your operating system (like Linux) and just want it to run the application programs you need, you should look for the OS that supports your way of working and your applications, and that is just it.
The problem comes when you have conflicting requirements like you seem to have. You want to run application programs written for Windows if I understand you correctly, with the ease of use of MS Windows (yes, it has a way of being easy if you are used to it), and the hardware requirements of a version of Windows no longer supported. So you turn to Linux as it has far less hardware demands than a Windows version with similar capabilities.
The thing is, you don't need to like or dislike Linux. It is a tool. And if you are using a tool that is not really fit for your purpose, it may still work, but it will not work as fine as the tool you really need. You can hammer a nail in a tree with a shovel. But chances are you will not like your shovel for it. I would just recommend to keep in mind that you choose the shovel because you are not willing to choose the hammer. Don't blame the shovel for it, but learn to hammer nails with a shovel. Give it time, and maybe, just maybe, you will someday also dig a hole in the ground with the shovel and discover it is a great tool for that. You may even start to like it.
But it is just a tool. The majority of sane people do not love Linux. There is nothing wrong with that. The great thing is, that those few strange people who do love Linux, also love to help others with it.
(I must correct one thing I said. I do like Linux. No, I love Linux. Maybe I love OS/400 even more, but still)